Tweezers

[mklotz]

Coffee stirrers are freely available at most Usonian coffee shops. They're easily modified into tweezers as this post ...

Coffee stirrer pearl tweezers

demonstrates.

Putting a wooden stick in your tea is probably a sacrilege in the UK. Instead of stirrers perhaps disposable chop sticks supplied with Asian take out food ?

Chopstick training hinges are available...

https://www.amazon.com/Reusable-Chop...1&sr=8-47&th=1

but it's more fun to fabricate your own.