I can't fly with my 33 # dog because she won't "fit" under the seat in front of me - they must be in a crate, and must be able to stand and turn around. I tried explaining that she is a Dog, not a Gerbil - they won't listen. And NO she is not a "service" dog, or an emotionally needed pet (most airlines refuse this now anyway). They will NOT let me buy her a seat (willing to do). And I can't/won't sedate her and put in overhead luggage.... Suggestions?